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Jesus Loves Heterosexuals…and Homosexuals Too!

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Society is obsessed with homosexuality. Christian churches are as obsessed or more so because of their aversion to this lifestyle and the need to eradicate it because of how it goes against the nature of humanity and the sacredness of creation. Christians are afraid that our world will go the way of Sodom and Gomorrah, and they may be correct.

The bible is very clear that homosexual acts are wrong. It calls these acts “Unnatural” and condemns them in several places throughout the scriptures. Don’t get me wrong; I don’t think committing homosexual acts is correct, but I’m pretty sure we’re missing something significant.

In our battle against the homosexual society in the world today we have forgotten that practicing homosexual acts isn’t the only sin in the bible. Equally as abhorring to God are heterosexual acts committed outside the marriage of one man to one woman. Adultery is condemned. Divorce is condemned because it leads to adultery and breaks a sacred covenant symbolic of God’s relationship with his church. Lust is condemned as much as acting on that lust is condemned.

In fact, these sins all seem to hold greater weight in the scripture than other sins like lying and even murder. The apostle, Paul, put it this way:

“Everything is permissible for me”–but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible for me”–but I will not be mastered by anything. “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food”–but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.
1 Corinthians 6:12-20

Homosexual acts, heterosexual acts outside of marriage, adultery, lust – all of these are grouped under one descriptive category: sexual immorality.

Why should we focus on one act like homosexuality and neglect the severity of the others? We shouldn’t! Yet Christians all over are talking about homosexuality, but when was the last time you saw as much zeal for condemning adultery or shacking up or lust or sleeping around or divorce?

Let’s be consistent. God doesn’t just condemn homosexual acts, He condemns heterosexual acts outside of the marriage covenant as well. If we give others participating in heterosexual acts grace, then we need to give grace to those in homosexual relationships as well. We are not called to approve of any of these acts, but we are called to love everyone – even those committing these sins.

“The wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23).” Your sins are just as worthy of that death as those sins you condemn in others. I remember that Jesus seemed more concerned that we get the plank out of our own eye than our ability to point out the faults in others.

Maybe, instead of focusing on condemning those we do not approve of, we should focus on loving them and loving the Father who created them like Jesus tells us to do. Loving someone doesn’t mean you approve of their actions, it just means that you recognize that Jesus loves you in spite of your actions, and you can love likewise.

So let’s be consistent. If you’re not talking about heterosexual sins, then you shouldn’t be talking about homosexual sins. If you aren’t focused on fixing your own sins, then you shouldn’t be worried about those sins others are committing.

The consistency Jesus asks us for is that of loving everyone equally: Jew, gentile, slave, free, man, woman, heterosexual, homosexual. If you ever want someone to hear about the love of Jesus you have to be showing Jesus to them through love first. Condemnation breeds rejection. “Love covers over a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).”

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Do You Approve of the Disapproval?

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We are all very opinionated people. I don’t know of anyone who doesn’t feel strongly about at least a few things they are involved in.

Maybe you are passionate about your opinion of politics. Maybe you are passionate about the environment. Maybe you are passionate about whether or not it is ethical to use live bait for fishing (yes, there are some strong opinions out there about this).

Whatever our opinions, we tend to actively try to persuade others that our opinion is not only valid, but right. In fact, I’m writing this column in the “opinions” section of the Matagorda Advocate. Of course, my opinion is right, and you should heed my words. See what I mean?

Mass media has been actively trying to persuade us to take on different opinions about various topics through the years. If you believe in global warming, then it is not because there is good science supporting it. The biggest supporters of global warming are government agencies and mass media.

Our culture in which we live also persuades us. If we spend enough time around a group of people we tend to think the way the group thinks. It’s sad, actually, because we as people give up our right and ability to think for ourselves when we succumb to such influence.

Over the years, the influence of culture has changed the minds of the masses – even the masses in the church. For example, when I was born, the “d” word and the “c” word were absolutely forbidden. When I was a teenager, they were commonplace on the television and in movies, and they became more commonplace in the language of the Christians I was around. Then, as television adopted the “a” word, it has become culturally acceptable. Many people are still holding out, but an entire society has changed its mind about the severity of these three words because of the influence of popular culture.

One of the things that concerns me as I look at the state of the church around the nation is the change in the church’s perception of sin.

Within the last ten years I have seen a trend in teaching shift from dealing with the hard issues of sin and it’s consequences to become more about love and peace and non-threatening topics. Because of this shift there has been a loss in the church’s understanding of the severity of sin.

The other night I listed 48 sins for my teenagers to rate in terms of the severity of the action or thought. For about 20 minutes I had to explain what several of these sins even meant. Then, as I looked at the lists they had ranked, many of the teens listed several of the items as “not a sin”. When we start talking about these sins and pointing them out in public we get attacked as hateful from every side. So, we shrink back and hold it in.

What I’ve noticed is that the generations coming up do not understand what many sins are. They do not understand how the scripture places equal consequence on each sin – “the wages of [all] sin is death” (Romans 6:23).

Each day I see teenagers that actively sin. But what concerns me even more in the masses of the church as a body is the acceptance given by the church to others who actively sin. I see people singing songs about being drunk. I see people posting about sex and drugs and homosexuality on their Facebook posts. In fact, it’s not uncommon to see them say “I am in 100% support of Insert sin here“.

Romans 1 says this: “Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.”

Not participating in a certain sin is important, but in this passage we see that we are called to go beyond mere action. It says we aren’t acting right when we not only do the sins but also when we approve of others who are doing those sins. If you’re wondering what kind of sins are being talked about read Romans 1. There’s a pretty good list there.

We approve of things with our words. We approve of things with our money when we buy, or rent, or give money to them. We approve of things with our actions when we stay in places or do things that show support of something immoral.

Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying we shouldn’t support the people that are sinning. What we can’t do is support the sin. This is difficult though, because our culture has equated the sin with the sinner, so if you disapprove of one you are perceived as rejecting the other. I do not approve of alcoholism, but there are many people that I love that struggle with this sin.

It’s time for a change. It’s time for a cleansing. It’s time for a refocusing of the morality of the church.

May you be the kind of person who initiates this change in your life. As we work together we can once again be a people who actively pursues God and all things righteous. As we fudge our morals the Adversary move closer in to our lives.

I’m praying for this in my life and yours as well. Please pray too that God will cleanse us and refocus us through His Holy Spirit as we recommit our character to being in submission to his good, pleasing and perfect will for our lives.

If you’ve never given your heart to Christ in the first place, then you still have sin in your life. That sin separates you from God in a severe way. You need the healing that can only come through the blood of Christ. If you’d like to know more about having a relationship restoration with God, then feel free to contact me at 245-1611 or via email at jddobbs@verizon.net. I will not chastise or ostracize you. Jesus invites you. He’s re-inviting his church as well. God bless you all as you refocus on what’s needed.


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